Category Archives: Life

Looking back and looking forward

Two choices, two outcomes for each.

Looking back:

  1. Be happy
  2. Be depressed

Looking forward:

  1. Be excited
  2. Be anxious

With both “looking back” and “looking forward,” you have choices.

When you’re in the present, however, there’s no choice. You’re just there.

Do what you want with my questions

I ask a lot of questions. Many of them are rhetorical. But I sometimes I really want some answers. So here are a few questions I’ve been stuck on:

  • Why do hockey players look smaller on TV compared to their size when you see a game in-person?
  • Where does all the poop go?
  • Have you ever purchased an e-book? If yes, how’d it go?
  • Have you ever seen Jerry Seinfeld perform stand-up live? What’d you think?
  • What do I do about my fear of being an insignificant speck in a vast universe?
  • What’s a good set of wireless headphones?
  • Why do I crave attention but hate being the center of it?

If you’re bored with the song you’ve been singing, aren’t your fans bored, too?

Just work

He left his job in finance to do photography. No, not me. Meet Brandon Stanton. He’s the guy behind “Human’s of New York,” a blog and now New York Times Bestselling book.

His advice to everyone, ironically? Just work.

If you have an idea, just work on it.

If you have a dream, just work on it.

If you care, just work.

Waiting until it’s perfectly ready does nothing until you just work.

Just work.

Just a little.

Today.

4 easy things for every morning

Productivity. Clarity. Direction.

I get those from these:

Four easy things for every morning:

  1. Move. Sometimes it’s a workout. Sometimes it’s just stretching. But something more than walking to the shower.
  2. Eat. Takes an extra five minutes, but it makes the next five hours more productive.
  3. Breathe. Just that for a minute or two. No planning, analyzing, strategizing. Just me.
  4. Speak. Sometimes to my gf, sometimes to my dog. If none are around, I speak anyway. First words of the day shouldn’t be to colleagues.

That’s it.

And oh, by the way. You just got four things done and you haven’t got into work yet.

$1.50 per day: Feh!

A new study says, contrary to widely held belief, eating healthy is not that more expensive than eating junk. They calculated it costs an extra $1.50 per day.

Great. Will this get anyone to change eating their habits? Very few.

Logic, analysis, reason has no impact on decision-making after a stressful day. $1.50 certainly doesn’t either.

But a study that says eating healthy lets you spend time with 1.5 more grandkids?

That would make an impact.

One idea

One blog post. One networking call. One addition to the recipe index.

I’m an ideas guy. For ideas guys like me, it’s easy to get lost. (See Darren Rowse’s talk at minute 24 ish). My head’s already spinning with ideas for the lifeisnoyoke site (and that’s absurd because I just launched a complete redesign).

But looking back on the week’s daily “ones”, I can see that I’m not lost. I’m not just an ideas guy.

I’m getting shit done.

One.

One.

One.

Mostly because he was a 1st round pick

1st round picks are 1st round picks forever. 2nd round picks, the same.

1st round picks make more money. They’re given more opportunities. And the benefit of the doubt.

Being a 2nd round pick is not a choice. But staying in a situation where you’re labeled a 2nd round pick is.

Three three three

The fourth tennis ball in a can. The bonus mini pen to make a four-pack. The fourth point in a thesis. The fourth project team member. Four downs to score. Ménage à quatre?

Why is #4 such a curse?

I lose less tennis balls when I use a 3-pack can. I hang on to pens longer when there’s just three. People absorb information better in sets of three. My project teams were great with three. Football teams are more likely to get a first down if they don’t get to 4th. Ménage à trois gets weird when you add another.

When isn’t three enough? And optimal? And more efficient?

Consistently rewarding

Monday through Friday, I post to this blog. The deadline is 8am CST.

Do I always make the deadline? No. Do I always hit a home run? No. Am I always looking forward to publishing something new? No.

But has this blog been the most consistent part of my life over the last year? Yes.

Rewarding, beneficial, recognized, fulfilling, fun, satisfying also work.

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