Huge lifestyle changes

Nobody suddenly:

  • Stops eating meat
  • Starts working for themselves
  • Stops speaking negatively about other people.

Huge lifestyle changes come at their own pace.

And they come naturally.

Before you know it, doing it the old way will feel completely wrong.

Wait for it.

The enemy of

Great is the enemy of good.

Perfect is the enemy of published.

Exact is the enemy of enjoyment.

Revolutionary is the enemy of replacement.

The choice of alliteration is irrelevant.

Don’t capitulate.

[Thanks, John.]

Thank you goodbyes

Turn “goodbyes” into “thank you’s”.

  • More appreciated.
  • Less awkward.
  • Gets you an implied “goodbye”, “see you soon”, and “good to see you” with much fewer words.

Got it?

Okay, thank you for reading.

The one goodbye

It’s usually one person. Or one couple. Or one family.

You don’t need to say goodbye to everyone.

Just find the one, and then you’re done.

Analogies

Analogies help make sense of tough situations.

Just remember there’s no such thing as a perfect one.

Do this before any bold move

Here’ s quick, two-part decision-making test before making a bold move.

  1. Think of someone whom you admire and respect highly. Best if they’re an idol of yours. Now, if this person did the bold move you’re considering, how would you feel? Would you still admire and respect this person as highly?
  2. Think of someone who doesn’t impress you. Best if they’re a peer of yours. Now, if this person did the bold move you’re considering, how would you feel? Would they impress you any more?

Forget every other rule in the book.

Imagine, first, if these two guys made that same bold move.

Yellow light

There’s a point on the road at which you’ll stop if the light is yellow.

Do you know that point for the open-ended, abstract, creative thing you’re working on?

Please yourself

Quickly, you’ll be unable to please everybody.

Then, it’s all about pleasing yourself.

And suddenly, the new everybody will be pleased.

Gifting words

Words are the best gift you can give.

Pair ’em with something tangible, if you must.

But nothing is better to receive than a set of meaningful, thoughtful words.

Short

A longer talk. A longer book. A longer email. A longer meeting. A longer workout. A longer movie.

Who’s ever wanted any of that?

Keep it short, eh?