You might wanna wait

When you buy a stock, be sure you’re good with the management.

When you buy a condo, be sure you’re good with the management.

When you pick a baseball team, be sure you’re good with the management.

You can have the best product or location or player.

But if the management isn’t great…

Sudden changes

What happens when things suddenly change?

New responsibilities. New expectations. New projects. New challenges. New titles. New status. New circles. New events. New risks. New challenges. New lists of stuff that needs to get done.

Well, nothing’s really changed.

That’s just the future.

So why not enjoy the moment?

Fun stuff

The desk needs to be dusted. Floor vacuumed. Fingernails clipped. Furniture assembled. Closet organized. Calls made. Mail checked.

Sounds pretty unappealing to most.

But for a procrastinator with a home office, these things are most tempting.

Sure, they need to get done.

But at the end of the year, they probably won’t be in the discussion about your results.

Right?

Now, get to work. You can do all that fun stuff later when you don’t need your energized brain.

Shitty writing

We know behavior is contagious.

Uggs, healthy eating, and using the phrase “at the end of the day.” Martial status, parenting style, spending habits.

Pretty much everything.

You do what people around you do.

But it’s not just for social stuff.

Creative quality and style, especially writing is contagious, too.

If you all you consume is Tweets, hip hop music, and Instagram quotables, it doesn’t matter if you were once a profound writer.

You’re bound to catch the “shitty writing” bug.

Moral of the story?

Shitty writing is like Ebola.

Stay the fuck away.

 

Who are you creating for?

Write for yourself. Draw for yourself. Photograph for yourself. Make jokes for yourself. Play music for yourself.

You might not get any readers, viewers, listeners, etc.

But if you do they’re yours forever.

And then, you’re actually creating for the world.

All Love for the Wisconsin Badgers

My Badgers lost last night. It was in the National Championship game.

It was a bummer. So many people said “sorry” to me.

It hurt more than any other moment as a fan. Crushing.

But this is far from a tragedy. It’s almost entirely the opposite.

Why?

The NCAA Tournament is not the Super Bowl. Or the Stanley Cup. Or even the World Series.

The NCAA Tourney is different.

Getting there is a win. Advancing to the Sweet 16 is a big win.  Being part of the Final Four is simply massive.

And in the NCAA Tourney, the kids aren’t paid. Winning is the only thing they’re playing for.

Glory.

This entire season, my Badgers were glorious.

They were Big Ten champs. They were a #1 seed in the NCAA Tourney. And they did the impossible: They beat the previously unbeaten Kentucky; in a Final Four game, no less.

And throughout the whole ride, they were themselves. The harder they worked, the more fun they had.

We were all a part of it.

Sure, they didn’t win the final game.

But the season for them and all of Badger Nation victorious. It was, in the words of Sam Dekker, “All love.”

Remember what remember means

Some thoughts that come to mind when it might be tough to remember:

  • I’ll remember where I put this.
  • I’ll remember how I did this.
  • I’ll remember to do this when I need to.

For the things that are easy to remember, when have you ever thought those thoughts?

Never.

If you actively think you’ll remember, you won’t.

Find a different spot. Write it down. Do it now.

 

Ramble on?

Rambling means one of two things:

  1. You’re not prepared.
  2. You’re not listening.

Either way, rambling on is probably a poor choice.

Pity the Fool

Clever April Fool’s joke.

Thanks, you confused me.

Clever April Fool’s joke.

Thanks, you didn’t meet my expectations.

Clever April Fool’s joke.

Thanks, you made me feel like an idiot.

When people remember not what you say but how you make them feel, how the hell is April Fool’s still a thing?